I have an M on my chest! -- MOM!

It's mother's day and I'm completely elated. I love this part of my life. I love the people that call me Mommy.

I remember the day I became a mother. As I laid in that hospital, numb from the waist down, tired from the pushing and hungry because they won't let you eat while laboring, I could only think of two things. 1-I could do this again. 2-I'm a superhero. I finally understood all mothers out there. I finally understood why they wore their title with a badge of honor. I understood the love, the bond, the reason behind the lengths a mother would go to protect her tribe. I got it. I felt powerful and accomplished. I was a mother. I am forever somebody's superhero.

Happy Mother's Day to all of us.

Photo Credit: Sarah Jordan Photography

Finding Your Style :: A Fashion Piece by Bliss by Tiff :: Guest Post

Meet my adopted little sister Tiff. She's a fashionista. When I asked her to write a couple articles about fashion, she jumped and screamed with glee. This is obviously her bliss. Introducing Bliss by Tiff. Read and comment, it'll make her smile. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
I Ever wonder "what's my style?" 

I know this is a question that has resonated with almost anyone at least one time in their life. The problem is we compare ourselves with the glitterati, modeling ourselves to look exactly like them!  

Fashion, and style is unique. Individuality is what keeps this world spinning. You might like A-line skirts, cargo pants, flats, Mary Janes, t-shirts, jeans,  or flirty sundresses. The only thing that matters is being true to yourself! 

Yes I will tell anyone to live a little, step outside the box, try a color, pattern, or fabric you would have never saw yourself in ever! However, you  should never step so far away that you lose the very essence of your very own unique style. 

Even if you are in a elegant style dress, with pearls, and you are use to long tees and cardigans, I should still be able to say WOW, that's so You! 

Every piece of clothing you put on can always be a reflection of who you are, and magnify your own personality in monumental ways. This is the very reason I love fashion. We can express ourselves, tell a story, show our mood, without ever opening our mouth, or using a pen. It's amazing! 

One of my dear girlfriends comes to my mind when I think of individual style. I met Amaris, (I call her Mari), at SAU in 2007, and we instantly became glued to the hip. Inseparable.  We were college roommates, sisters, we were everything to each other. Today we are even more intertwined more than ever! She has always maintained true to herself. I know without a shadow of doubt that she will be the one in cute sundresses, tanks, cardigans, neutral tones, peep toe heels, sandals, but no matter what, she looks adorable and so comfortable in her own skin. I love it!

However, this girl will take chances, she will step out of her comfort zone to experience new looks any chance she gets. When I go visit her, getting dressed for our planned outing for the day is one of my most favorite moments with her. Everyone's strategy is different when figuring out an outfit to wear, but to see her, and her charismatic personality shine through during this process is beyond amazing!  

She's  a lover of smell goods too, so that plays a huge factor in adding to our style. I love her style, I love her willingness to try new things, and most of all I love her! I would love to design clothes for her, she would be a designer's playground! She's classy, she's comfortable, she's Bold and Beautiful!

Let's see her revolutionize from casual, comfy beach day to fashion runway It Girl!

*From left to right-Beach day: all pieces from Banana Republic,  Beige dress: Charlotte Russe, Multi-color print dress: Banana Republic (Sale item), and finally this amazing Dark blue/brown dress: Antonio Milani (Sale item a Dillards)

~Biss by Tiff

High School Seniors Wanted :: After Prom Series

Once or twice a year, I get an idea and I get an itching to photograph it. I have this idea in my head to photograph a group of guys and dolls in their prom dresses and tuxes. It either going to be a grungy scene or out in a field.  But it will be hilariously fun.

I need willing models...that's where you come in. I need a few people willing to put their gowns back on for a special photo shoot.

It's totally complimentary. No charge. In exchange for your time, I will offer beautifully printed photographs.

Email me for details: pru@photosbypru.com
Or call 404.954.0095

I'm excited.

Understanding Color Temperature :: Photos by Pru

Have you ever taken a picture, looked at your camera screen and to your shock and amazement, the people are orange? Truth is, it's happened to all of us. That orange look can be intentional but it's rarely flattering.

Light has color and every type of lighting situation creates a different mood. As I photographer I want to dictate the mood......and I want to do it in-camera. Yes I can adjust it in Lightroom or Photoshop but why give myself extra work.

Every camera, even my cell phone camera has the auto white balance option as well as preset options for the most common types of lighting scenarios like flourescent, incandesent, etc.

My latest and greatest addiction is making custom adjustments to white balance by changing the Kelvin temperature in my camera to reflect the look that I'm going for. This picture shows why adjusting the Kelvin temperature matters.

Wedding Keepsake

Do you remember sitting down as a little child and looking through your parents of grandparents wedding album and being amazed at how young they looked, or fascinated by the fashion of the day? One of the favorite parts of my job is presenting couples with wonderful Coffee Table Albums. It tells the story in pictures. It's quite a process to create the album and I sit with my fingers twitching until the day that the mailman brings it to my doorstep. I realize that this will be a keepsake that will last generations. This will live on, long after digital files go to the place where a-tracks, videotapes, and cd's are.  This is the story of a new and vibrant love. This is the joining to two lives....and this is the evidence that tells the story of their wedding day in pictures.

Here is a 15 second preview of an album.....an everlasting memory of a beautiful day.

3 Secrets to better Facebook pictures

A friend and top-notch videographer vented on his facebook status about blurry, out-of-focus pictures on facebook. He only wants people to be more selective about posting crappy pictures. I could feel his pain. I hate when people post crappy pictures. So, here are some keys to posting better pictures on facebook.

1. Only post pictures that are IN FOCUS -- If it's blurry or out-of-focus.....don't post it. The moment is just never that important. No matter how good looking you think you are, the fact that the picture  is out of focus will negate your good looks. Don't get me wrong, there is such a thing as artistic blur.....but even a fool knows when a picture is artistic or just a bad shot.....and everybody gets bad shots.
2. Only post FLATTERING pictures -- It's just plain wrong to post pictures of yourself or your friends that are unflattering. Follow the "Do unto others" rule.
3. Follow the LIGHT. My mentor always says, "Photography is simply painting with light." Take pictures in good light. A huge hint is to face the good light. If you're taking pictures near a window, face the window.

3 ways to guarantee AWESOME bride and groom portraits

It's your wedding day. Your family and friends have come from near and far. They want to be there to watch as you say "I Do" to the love of your life. Everybody has put on their best outfits and donned their brightest smile but no one will be as stunning as you coming down the aisle to meet your groom. Your inner circle love you dearly. They'll cheer when the minister says, "I now pronounce you man and wife." They'll beam with joy when it's time to 'kiss the bride.' They'll give you hugs and pull you aside for 'their' picture with you and your brand new husband. You'll smile so brightly and so often that your jaw will be sore.....and you'll love every minute of it. All the planning and prep, all the details boil down to this.....and you want to soak in every minute of it.

The happy couple is the center of attention and the want to remember the day forever. But sometimes in the joy and bliss of the day they miss out one very important thing......bride and groom portraits. They have pictures of everything, and with everyone, but stepping away to create the portraits that will hang on their walls gets the least attention, or sometimes get's completely overlooked.

Hire the best photographer, then take these steps and you'll have AMAZING bride and groom portraits.

1. Schedule at least 2 hours between the ceremony and reception for bridal party pictures, family pictures and bride/groom portraits. 
• Yes, it seems like a long time but creating amazing, breathtaking pictures takes time and requires that you leave the wedding guests behind so that you can have as few distractions as possible. 
2. Do a first look.
•  This is a photographer and videographer's dream for every wedding. The bride and groom agree to see each other before the ceremony and take amazing pictures. It is all staged  by the wedding professions to achieve the sweetest and most powerful reactions from the happy couple. Then they are wisked off for a photo session that is just mind blowing. 
3. Plan for a post-wedding session. 
• If you weren't able to get the pictures that you wanted on your wedding day then it's not too late. It is always possible to schedule a session after the wedding. I highly recommend that you do this as soon after the wedding as possible.

Here's a sneak peek of a Post-Wedding session. Jason and Tajana are a wonderful couple. She's gorgeous and he loves every cell in her body. It's obvious. I was not their wedding photographer but I've always wanted to photograph them....so I asked.....and they said 'Yes'. We spent about 2 hours together and the result is an amazing photo story that makes me scream with joy. There's a beautiful open trail in Lithonia and I've dreamed of the art I could create there. These two were the perfect couple to make my dream come true.

Love these pictures?

• Then book your wedding day photography with Photos by Pru.
• Maybe you didn't get the pictures you wanted on your wedding day, it's not too late, book your own Post-Wedding Session. I'd love to make it right for you.
• Don't forget to follow me on Facebook.

Want a little more? Watch this video below!

Cool things to do in the cold weather --- brrrr

It's going to be 5 degrees on Monday morning. Yes, 5! 1.2.3.4.5. My body was not made to tolerate that kind of weather. One kid is supposed to go to school, the other will be home. But I have a sneaky feeling that school will be canceled for both. So here is a some cool stuff that we are going to do, except that we're going to take advantage of the cold weather to see how things work out.

Then we're going to film it, photograph it and share with you all :). Should be fun. #ScienceExperiment. #NerdAndProud

Perspective --- Putting it all in focus

Tonight, the first night of the new year, I went on a date with my very sexy husband. Just the two of us. It felt good. Life has been hectic for me lately and as we talked I started on a diatribe of complaints about work and kids and business and marketing and house chores....and he looked at me and said, "Isn't all that exciting?" I was like, "Yea, but, it's so much work....and I'm tired."

But that one comment had me thinking, maybe that's my problem, perspective. I wouldn't want it any other way. I love all that I have to do. But I'm not enjoying it as much as I should and the truth is that these are the moments that I will miss. I'm gonna miss this but the complaints are some sort of payoff mentally and I need to give it up b/c it's weighing me down and keeping me from enjoying, fully enjoying doing the exact things that I dreamed about. My life is good. Really good and I like it!

So. I started a grateful jar. I am going to fill it up with things that made me happy throughout the year. I'm already excited.


This little video reminded me of all things to be grateful about.

After all that she's endured in the last few months, this is proof that Lauryn Hill still has the X-Factor! YES! She has it.

This piece is about 12 minutes long, but worth every, single minute.....the ending, the best part. I hope that one day she makes peace with the music industry so that the world can regularly enjoy her art. We deserve that much.

Every girl has had a moment in her life where her chickens come home to roost. In other words, you have to face the music and deal with the consequences of bad behavior. If you haven't experienced it yet, just hold on....your day is coming. It's happened to all of us.....more than once. But it's not the end, there's always a bounce back. There's always a renewal, a rejuvenation, a re-emergence. You can choose to recover or wallow in self-pity. But you will always get a chance to do the thing that defines you and it breathes life into a space that needed refreshing. This is Lauren's moment. She DID THAT!